Burnout is a term we often associate with the workplace, but it’s much broader than that. As Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner Anna Janke explains, “Burnout is emotional exhaustion—feeling drained or unable to cope, feeling detached from work, people around you, family, friends—and just feeling ineffective.” It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged or excessive stress, and it can affect anyone, regardless of profession or life stage.

Burnout goes beyond everyday stress. It is an ongoing feeling of being overwhelmed and emotionally drained. Over time, this stress can erode your energy, reduce productivity, and sap your motivation. Eventually, you may feel hopeless, helpless, and resentful.

Often, people struggling with burnout begin to feel isolated, numb, or indifferent—what Anna calls being “detached or unemotional,” even with close family and friends.

Symptoms of Burnout

Burnout symptoms can overlap with those of depression, anxiety and sleep disorders, which can make it hard to recognize. Common symptoms include:

  • Chronic fatigue
  • Trouble sleeping
  • Changes in eating habits
  • Low motivation and energy
  • Feeling hopeless or helpless
  • Irritability or mood swings
  • Loss of interest in things once enjoyed
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Physical symptoms like headaches or stomach issues

Causes of Burnout

There are a wide range of triggers: “Finances, relationships, caregiving, losing a job, feeling overwhelmed at work or school—even basic daily responsibilities can be overwhelming depending on a person’s circumstances,” Anna explains.

Key contributing factors may include:

  • Chronic stress
  • Lack of control
  • Unrealistic expectations—self-imposed or from others
  • Poor work-life balance
  • Personal or family crises
  • Isolation or lack of social support
  • A history of depression or anxiety
When to Seek Help

Recognizing when burnout crosses the line from manageable stress to a serious issue is important. Anna suggests, “Anytime someone feels overwhelmed or doesn’t know where to turn—or if they don’t want to turn to friends or family—that’s when to seek help. Especially if it leads to suicidal thoughts.”

It’s not necessary to wait for a crisis. Even mild but persistent symptoms are reason enough to talk to a professional. “Burnout isn’t something you have to push through on your own. You can seek help early, before things get serious,” adds Anna.

Treatment and Management Options
  1. Counseling and Therapy

Therapy can help individuals identify the sources of stress and learn coping strategies. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a popular approach that focuses on changing negative thought patterns. “Therapy can be short-term or long-term,” says Anna.

  1. Medication

If symptoms are severe—especially with sleep or mood changes—medication might be recommended.

  1. Self-Care and Lifestyle Adjustments

Simple but consistent lifestyle changes can make a big difference:

  • Exercise: Regular physical activity helps relieve stress.
  • Sleep: Prioritize quality sleep to allow your body and mind to recover.
  • Nutrition: Eating a balanced diet can improve overall health and mood.
  • Journaling: A helpful way to process emotions and reflect.
  • Mindfulness and Meditation: Apps and guided sessions can assist with relaxation and focus.

Anna adds, “Apps for sleep or meditation can be a good place to start if someone’s not ready for therapy.”

  1. Support Systems

Reaching out to trusted friends, family, or peer support groups can provide emotional help. Having someone to talk to helps reduce isolation and reinforce the sense that you’re not alone.

Burnout is Not a Sign of Weakness

It’s a signal that something needs to change. Whether it’s small adjustments at home or work, talking to a therapist, or exploring medical options, there’s no shame in asking for support.

“You can see your primary care provider or make an appointment with me—no referral needed,” Anna says. “The key is not to wait until it’s a crisis.”

Everyone’s stress threshold is different, and what feels manageable to one person may be overwhelming to another. What matters most is recognizing when you need support—and giving yourself permission to seek it.

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Anna Janke, PMHNP, APRN, CNP

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